Everyone has favourite things they look for in their other half & I’m no different, I love the simple things, the things that everyone should want.
I love love & to love the person who loves you back, to be with the person who wants you & ONLY YOU & to want to spend your entire life on earth with the only person who wants to spend their entire life on earth with you, honestly, having that knowledge brings me so much comfort, happiness, safety & peace.
Yes, me & Richard are a lot alike, the amount of times I’ve wanted something & without asking, ‘poof’, it’s there, just like magic (hehe). He knows me so well. We want the same things from life (whether we get them is another matter), we like the same things, although, Richard’s a weirdo & likes horror films, I on the other hand, am a normal person & do not like horror films ONE BIT! Hehe.
The things I love in a man are –
The ability to make me laugh every single day
Me & Richard met on a dating website which I only joined for a laugh & Richard found my profile by accident because he was intending to delete his profile the day he seen me on the site. On my profile, I’d written that I was looking for someone to make me laugh every day & by golly, he does, every single day, even in times when all I want to do is cry, I’m so lucky to have a man like Richard, he lifts my mood no matter how dark my mood is, even when I want to be mad with him for any reason, he manages to make me laugh, laughing feels so much nicer than feeling annoyance & anger! Whenever I think of Richard, he makes me smile.
He’s got to be able to make me feel warm & fuzzy & give me that ahhhh feeling
You know that feeling when you feel stressed or you’ve had a hard or/& long day at work or even just doing something mentally or physically taxing & you finally get a chance to (fill in the blank) ………………………. (take off your shoes, have a glass of your favourite tipple, sit down in your favourite chair – you know what I mean?) That euphoric feeling of immediate ease & a wave of peace & happiness, it’s almost like – what the hell have I been stressed/worried/annoyed (pick a word) about ALL DAY kind of feeling. Well, that’s the feeling I get when Richard puts his arms around me when I’m stressed, annoyed, pissed off or just have a need (hehe). Whenever I think about Richard, he not only makes me smile but he also gives me a warm & contented feeling. Those arms of his can lift the darkest of moods & brighten the saddest of moments.
He must be able to make me feel safe
Knowing that I’ve got someone in my corner & that he will be by my side no matter what throughout my life is so reassuring. I love the fact that I know I’ve got someone who makes me feel secure & safe, Richard is so dependable & reliable. I know that know matter what I face in life & where I go, as long as Richards by my side, I’ll be safe.
I’ve heard people say throughout my life that we don’t need a man to rely on to make us happy & feel safe & although I do agree to some extent, not only do we all know that everything & everyone around us affect our mood but also, I don’t do well alone, I thrive on company, laughter, feeling needed & appreciated in every aspect of my life.
I may be a selfish pig when it comes to food sharing & I may not always show patience but I truly hope my darling Richard knows how happy he makes me & that I love him dearly, I know it’s a cliché but I really was born to love him & only him, it just took me 20 odd years to find him, I sometimes wonder what our lives would look like together now had we have met back then???
I truly hope that every human gets to feel the same feels as I do at some point in their lives.
I know that they’ll be people who won’t like this post, some people don’t do well with such displays of affection but you know what? I don’t give a monkeys!
Christmas is getting ever so closer & by the way, I don’t know if I’ve mentioned it yet but I’m ATTEMPTING (emphasis on attempting) to do blogmas this year, we’ll see how it goes.
I hope you have an amazing week.
Bye for now.